❤ Islam's great concern for family relationships ❤
Islam
guarantees an explanation of family laws, by giving hints about the secrets of
establishing marriage as part of the Shari'a in detail at one time and globally
at another time in several verses and letters as well as many hadiths in the
form of inheritance law, will, marriage and divorce. Islam explains why harmony
occurs, the instrument for the birth of good social relations. Islam builds
honest love based on interpersonal based on clear rights within a limited
circle. So when that right is maintained, then Islamic kinship will live in
pleasure and comfort. Islam warns against the collapse
of the family, recommends maintaining and uniting it. And expel what is
propaganda about the breaking of family ties. Among them:
1.
Divorce
Divorce is
one of the most powerful destroyers of togetherness. Many are dragged into
disaster, break up large families, waste affection, separate husband and wife
who have established love and affection. Making children sink into the abyss of
confusion and alienation, because they lose their father's compassion and
mother's affection. Pleasure becomes suffering, harmony becomes division, love
becomes hatred.
2.
Disobeying parents
Indeed,
Allah and the Messenger of Allah. prohibited the act and threatened him.
Ordered to be devoted and do good to parents, with an explanation of the Qur'an
and hadith by including their rights with the rights of Allah ta'ala in the
noble Qur'an :
"And your Lord has commanded you not to worship except him,
(serve) both parents as well as possible. Sometimes it really has arrived at
your side in old age one of the two, or both, then don't say to both of them
"ah" and don't rebuke them and say to both of them with noble words.
(QS. Al-Isra '17: verse 23)
Prophet Saw. said (which means):
“Three people whom Allah will not look at on the Day of
Judgment; people who disobey their parents, people who always get drunk and
people who always bring up kindness. Three people will not enter heaven: people
who disobey their parents, husbands who are dayyuts, namely husbands who
approve of the ugliness of their wives and women who are rajilah, namely women
who resemble men.
(Narrated by
An Nasai with a good sanad)
Imam al
Hakim narrated in the book al-Mustadrok from the Prophet SAW. that he
said (which means):
"All the sins of Allah will delay their torment according
to what He wills until the Day of Resurrection unless they dare to disobey
their parents. So verily Allah hastens the punishment for the perpetrators in the
life before death ".
So there is
no doubt that actually daring to disobey your parents is a grave sin that
destroys.
3.
Breaking the ties of silaturrahmi
Islam
forbids it, threatens it and reminds it in the great book because it considers
it big, with the word of Allah (which means):
"Then if you were in power, you would do damage to the
earth and would break the ties of family relationship."
(QS.
Muhammad 47: verse 22)
4.
Adultery
Adultery is
the biggest factor driving the collapse of the household. Allah Ta'ala says
(which means):
"And do not approach adultery, in fact adultery is an
abomination and the worst way.
(QS. Al-Isra
'17: verse 32)
Hopefully
all of us can take the ark of marriage with love and affection filled with the
pleasure of Allah SWT.